Do you think it's weird that I still want to see my ex-friend happy, even though she hurt me?

It's good karma and good vibes to wish people well, even your enemies. Noone is perfect and we are jaded on this journey we all happen to be going through at the same time. Give your kindness and compion to people that will appreciate it, not to people who are shallow, empty, angry and miserable. Being happy and full of life is the other person's job, it's not yours, unless you are co-dependent and get your happiness out of seeing other people happy. I'm sure you can see the huge issue with being like that is and will become. Life is hard and is supposed to be hard. Sometimes tough love is the best way for a person to snap out of the funk they are in. They are in a funk for a reason, and if people continue to bail them out they will never change or grow. It's actually kind of controlling for someone to constantly bail them out, the other person will become dependent on them and will feel resentful because of it. Those people will drain you dry and you will end up like them. Protect your own energy and power and give it when you feel you are able to and that it won't drain you by doing so. You will become more aware of who needs it and deserves it and who doesn't. Be aware of people who always have problems, are always venting or complaining, or are always talking about bad someone else ............these are toxic people that will drain you dry and bring you down. .