A long, complicated relationship problem?

These are not your standard he leaves clothes on the floor, he leaves dirty dishes in the sink kind of complaints. These are serious issues that will affect your relationship and as more time goes by it will be much harder to end. If your having doubts then I would suggest ending it now. Do not compromise your moral beliefs for anybody. Something my mom told me before I got married that has stuck with me is this. There is always going to be something about somebody you don't like. You just have to decide what you want to live with and what you dont. Hope this helps.